Post No. 15 : Tired of people getting treated badly when they deserve so much more.

Just finished talking to a friend and I’m overloaded with information but I’m absolutely TIRED of my friend being treated unfairly and what not when he is a super guy and deserves a heck of a lot more!

This guy, man, he is wonderful, hard working, caring, and ever so giving. He does put people first a lot of the times and make sure to please others; I don’t know if he actually does that but it seems it to me. Anyways, after talking to him, people treat him so unfairly. Every nice thing he does isn’t recognized, he tries so hard but it’s never good enough, and when he has a life people will be saying “what the heck, get back here and be a friend!” 

I don’t get it. It blows my mind. Why are people so unfair and misunderstanding? No wonder nice people always come last and no wonder why some say “there are no nice people out there” or “a nice person is hard to find,” well heck, you’re not even seeing these NICE people. People just pick out all the bad things and ignore ALL the good about the person. Maybe not all the good but don’t think of them all. I’ll admit, this friend can be a dick sometimes but all the good about him weights out the bad. Don’t get me wrong, I love my friend, but we both know its true. 

In this society, we go out there and do things just to get to the top and benefit ourselves before helping others. We see all the good things in us and see all the good we do for people, but we pick at all the things that people don’t do for us and blow things out of proportion. I agree, its bothering some when you have a friend that comes to you, talk to you about their problems and when you want to talk about yours, they aren’t there. People need to see that there is always a reason for them not being there and it’s not always bad, it could possibly be something important that they can’t be there. We look at that as such a negative thing and just immediately say “Oh, they’re ignoring me” or “Ugh, they ALWAYS leave when I want to talk about my problems”. Why can’t it be “Oh, they must have something important to do” or “That’s nice they’re going out and doing something” WHY. Ugh. I don’t know anymore. I just think it’s absolutely unfair to see these nice people getting treated like crap.

Thanks.

-Allison